Penfield Youth Wrestling Coach Begins Bout With Cancer

Reported by: Sean Carroll
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Updated: 11/24/2012 11:31 am

Penfield, N.Y. -- The recent success of Penfield’s wrestling program can be attributed in part to a youth coach and father of seven who has helped mold some of the team’s best athletes. But this year, Scott Kropman’s taking on a new and unexpected opponent; cancer.

Kropman was diagnosed on November 5th after months of tests that began in August after he saw a doctor for a shoulder injury he suffered at work. Doctors now tell him they’re fairly certain he has a Neuroendocrine tumor and the mass in his shoulder is just some of what was discovered.

"My shoulder, my spine, my abdomen and then they said they saw possible spots in my pelvis, my rib," Kropman explained while pointing to various spots on his body.

"I came home from practice the first day actually and they told me about it," Sklyer Kropman, a junior on Penfield’s team recalled of his father’s diagnosis.

“My mom showed up late and I was like why are you late?” Parker Kropman, a Penfield freshman said of the day he learned about his dad. “And she just started crying and I asked her what was wrong and she told me."

Success in wrestling is often developed through routine. When something disrupts that routine a wrestler’s focus is tested.

"Just when I'm doing my takedowns, drilling my moves (I) just try to think about it so every time I push that little extra so I can get that takedown or get my back points," Parker said of how he focuses on his routine despite this distraction.

“It kind of motivates me as well because I don't know what's going to happen, how long he's going to be here, and I want to win like even more,” Skylar said. “Like I already want to win but I want to win even more for him."

Kropman’s prognosis isn’t good, but it’s early yet.  There are many more tests and procedures in his future, more meetings with doctors, and more time to fight back. 

"My one friend always said this will be your toughest match," smiled Kropman.

In Scott Kropman cancer has chosen a tough opponent.

"I mean within an hour of him finding out we're talking about how we're going to win this battle, whatever it takes with that wrestler's mentality," Penfield Wrestling Head Coach John Leone said of his friend.

Cancer also picked a fight with a large team that has Kropman’s back. At home his wife and seven kids join this fight. So to do the wrestlers and families involved in the Penfield Youth Wrestling program that Kropman’s coached for years. After practice on Friday Coach Leone made sure the high school team understands they’re also part of this fight.

"He's going to be fighting a battle against cancer here over the next few weeks or months,” Coach Leone told the team. “So just be aware that we have one other challenge that we're adding to the bucket and we're all going to take it on."

For Kropman, these wrestling teams and his boys are already giving him strength.

Kropman Family
Kropman Family

"Watching this team and watching my sons and all that stuff is motivation to me this is what pumps me up is being able to see them,” Kropman said. “Watching my boys succeed really helped. The first thing when I told them I had the cancer I said no matter what happens you don't stop doing what you're doing, don't let anybody tell you you’ve got to be home now instead of wrestling. You continue to do what you've been doing, continue to always be who you've been and don't stop no matter what happens to me.”

That message is not lost on Kropman’s boys.

"He wants us to just keep pushing forward, working hard and make sure that we do what we want to do,” Parker said. “Because us being good, us working hard, us doing the right thing is what makes him get through the day and being happy."

"We're just going to fight it like wrestlers,” Skyler said. “They are the toughest people in the world, he was a wrestler he's got all these people that care about him so we're just going to get past it."

On Sunday at the Winton Bar and Grill from 1 p.m. to 6 p.m. friends are hosting a benefit to raise money for Kropman and his family as they begin this battle with cancer. 

On December 22nd the Penfield High School Wrestling Team will host a “Takedown Cancer” Tournament with other local teams attending. Wrestlers will wear pink uniforms and proceeds will go to cancer research.

Kropman meets with his doctors again next week and is updating people on his status through this CaringBridge page.

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